As you know, I kept my name. I will, if pressed, answer to Mrs. Hisname, but as there is already a Myfirstname Hisname married to a brother, that base is already covered in my way of thinking.

FWIW, I've run into many women who told me they wished they'd kept their names. One's financial identity sometimes gets lost here after a name change.

My guy never had any problems with me keeping myname. Had we opted to reproduce, I would have hyphenated.